Today will be on friendship. Hmmmmmm, yes friendship is a topic some
men hate, claiming that their wives take advantage of the situation by
been friends with them. Now instead of defining friendship, I will ask
what do best friends do because it's the best friends part i will be
focusing on, seems that is what couples should be amongst themselves,
not only mere friends. so i will be listing a few, directly from
searched sources and worked by me
1. They offer to run errands for each other if one is in a serious time crunch.
1. They offer to run errands for each other if one is in a serious time crunch.
2. They are super sweet about any given dilemma for as long as
possible, but be firm, corrective and strong to them when necessary.
3. Always find some way to make their birthday and special occasions special, even if they absolutely hate celebrating.
4. Always make them happy no matter what it takes for that to happen.
5. They call often
6. They teach themselves things about themselves that they never knew.
7. Celebrate promotions and good improvements and never getting jealous over their progress/success.
8. Never judge themselves
9. Send themselves care package or ask if they need anything.
10. Always concerned about their emotions, how they feel, what they love, what hurt them, etc.
11. Do not hold grudges at them, but rather deal with things bothering you in a mature manner.
12. Share a lot of personal details with them. Open up and let them in on your past experiences and current anxieties, no matter how painful or embarrassing it was.
13. Trusting themselves with these secrets, guarding them with their lives.
14. Do not ask for that small Naira they borrowed from you.
15. Remind them that you always have their back, even though they know already.
16. Never get seriously mad at each other, even though they hurt you.
17. Be a shoulder they can cry on at any point in time.
18. Recognize that friendship is a two way street, there is a time to talk about them and a time to talk about you.
19. Never seek revenge on one another, no matter how bad a fight was.
20. Change something within them, whether it's as big as how they see the world or small as a new habit they picked up, prove that you are a valuable part of their lives, because they are valuable part of yours too.
Now my Pearl Jewels from all these about best friends and what they do, i will ask the questions to couples, Are you best friends with your spouse? because once they are, they will become indispensable, thereby avoiding Divorce. Have a Happy day my Pearl Jewels.#PJO#
3. Always find some way to make their birthday and special occasions special, even if they absolutely hate celebrating.
4. Always make them happy no matter what it takes for that to happen.
5. They call often
6. They teach themselves things about themselves that they never knew.
7. Celebrate promotions and good improvements and never getting jealous over their progress/success.
8. Never judge themselves
9. Send themselves care package or ask if they need anything.
10. Always concerned about their emotions, how they feel, what they love, what hurt them, etc.
11. Do not hold grudges at them, but rather deal with things bothering you in a mature manner.
12. Share a lot of personal details with them. Open up and let them in on your past experiences and current anxieties, no matter how painful or embarrassing it was.
13. Trusting themselves with these secrets, guarding them with their lives.
14. Do not ask for that small Naira they borrowed from you.
15. Remind them that you always have their back, even though they know already.
16. Never get seriously mad at each other, even though they hurt you.
17. Be a shoulder they can cry on at any point in time.
18. Recognize that friendship is a two way street, there is a time to talk about them and a time to talk about you.
19. Never seek revenge on one another, no matter how bad a fight was.
20. Change something within them, whether it's as big as how they see the world or small as a new habit they picked up, prove that you are a valuable part of their lives, because they are valuable part of yours too.
Now my Pearl Jewels from all these about best friends and what they do, i will ask the questions to couples, Are you best friends with your spouse? because once they are, they will become indispensable, thereby avoiding Divorce. Have a Happy day my Pearl Jewels.#PJO#
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