Friday, 30 October 2015

Angry Wives

Women please no matter how angry you get, never ever hit your husband either by giving him a slap across the face or touching him hard especially in the hit of an argument or something as it will take God for any man not to retaliate worse of all a man who fears no one. I say this because a woman specifically came crying that her husband beats her and that she was tired of the marriage and all that. Knowing her well enough, I asked her what she usually do to her husband to warrant a beat and she says he gets angry easily etc, giving some very flimsy excuse that was not in the books, deliberately avoiding her wrongs and stating mostly her husband's fault. I tried calming her down and asking to meet with her husband which she deliberately refused, claiming she does not think she can go on,painting herself very innocent.


Knowing myself not wanting to get in between a couple's fight and also not so sure of her story (instincts), I approached her husband who happens to be a friend too and one gist led to another and he opened up, saying stuffs like I do not enjoy beating my wife, but do you believe that in the heat of an argument, she always hits me and at the 2nd to 3rd slap I find myself retaliating. I laughed in my heart and told him that no matter what happens he should not retaliate, once she slaps him once, he should leave the house and he immediately said she would not allow him, then I told him that the strength he uses to pounce on her he should use it instead to carefully pack her and dump her in a corner of the house and take off, and other things he can do to manage the situation. He also told me he had warned her several times, but she would not listen, so he was tired too and wants out. Lieing is some women's problem and will address that later in this group.


Now my Pearl Jewels, do you see how annoying some women can get. For heaven's sake why will you slap a man and not even see anything wrong with it and still lie about it. The little baby will grow up in a nasty environment, no form of respect etc. Haba!! Haba!! Haba!! My darlings, please never hit a man, no matter what. If he annoys you so bad and you know you have a bad temper, then please go to the toilet and cry it out or go out and scream it out. Never ever ever hit a man because you will not like the outcome, trust me. Then you can always tell your husband to help your anger.


For other women who are friends to some married women who bring issues to you, be careful how you contribute to other people's marital issues, because some women are just yeye liars and what they stand to gain in running their husband down is what I am yet to discover, but till then, be careful and know what you say. Have a wonderful weekend my priceless Pearls. ‪#‎PJO‬#.

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