One man's food as always said is another man's poison also applies seriously in relationships. Even if been yourself takes away some men from you, it is that same thing that will attract the next right fellow to you. This does not mean you will have terrible characters and say Nene said you should be your self, instead be justified on every act of being yourself.
Now ladies in
trying to be yourself in any relationship, never ever start what you
cannot finish. If you start washing a man's clothes before marriage,
please note that those are some of the things he saw that made him walk
you down the aisle. Do not think you will get married and all of a
sudden stop washing his clothes. That is a huge lie and mistake you will
be doing to yourself, because he will walk away to the next lady
claiming that you changed a great deal after marriage and cannot have
any more changes. This is just one scenario I painted, you can do the
remaining maths as to other things. In essence just like the old adage
that says 'As you lay your bed, so you shall lie on it', I translate to
say the hand with which you use in starting your relationship and
courtship will determine how your marriage is going to go, because you
will have no other option, but to keep laying on that bed the exact way
you have laid, i.e you will have no option but to keep doing what you
started expect the man is a good man, he will bear and stay.
Therefore use your tongue to count your teeth. This is to say what you want to see and experience can only be created by you and no one else. So if you pretend to be a good cook and call your friend to do the cooking instead of learning, then you should know what to expect. I can go on and on, but please ladies be yourself, never pretend during courtship both male and female, but especially females, do not be A today in courtship and be D in marriage. This is another thing that destroys hope and throw Men especially off balance. Have the best week ever my Sweet Pearl Jewels. #PJO#
Therefore use your tongue to count your teeth. This is to say what you want to see and experience can only be created by you and no one else. So if you pretend to be a good cook and call your friend to do the cooking instead of learning, then you should know what to expect. I can go on and on, but please ladies be yourself, never pretend during courtship both male and female, but especially females, do not be A today in courtship and be D in marriage. This is another thing that destroys hope and throw Men especially off balance. Have the best week ever my Sweet Pearl Jewels. #PJO#
No comments:
Post a Comment