Men your turn, I have been up with the ladies for a while and I think
it's time to face you guys now. My Dada will say that a Husband is the
HOUSE-BAND. Now I am going to break that down a little bit. Being a
house-band means you should be the exact person to bring your house
together using the band. The size and type of band with which you use in
achieving that will matter a lot. You can decide to use the thread to
band your household or a rubber-band which we all know, so I will use
that for my illustration. Have it at the back of your mind that when
using a rubber-band, it has to be thick enough for the particular House
and people in it you intend to hold, just exactly the way a rubber-band
acts, with the person tieing the rubber band as the husband.
Now
if you use a tiny rubber-band for a big issue/stuff it will definitely
cut, making the banding unsuccessful, but if you use a thick and big
rubber-band that is also more than one, then it's going to hold it for a
long time. But you see, you still have to change the rubber-band with
time, so it does not still cut or give way too. Now that is the exact
duty of the Husband in the house-hold. This is part of what makes you a
man. While growing up, I heard our mothers and most people say things
like it is a woman that holds the home. Well I am here to differ from
that saying big time. It is highly NOT scriptural and therefore I stand
against it. Our mothers used that to keep their homes due to the
ill-mannered and unconcerned ways of our fathers. In-fact this is another
issue that is destroying marriages today, because ladies do not want to
be like their mothers anymore as they saw their mother's cry most times
and to them, it never paid off.
I am just trying to cut my usual
long story short to say to my AweZome Pearl Jewels Men that Please if
you are not ready to up-hold your home strong in all ways, take all the
shock etc, be a house-band like my Dada says, take care of the needs in
and out of the house etc, be emotionally sound to know how to speak to a
woman, then please stay single, because you are not ready for marriage
just yet. Been a Man is not a day's job and it entails a lot, but I have
noticed that most men today shy away from doing a lot and shifting it
to women. In-fact they have now categorized it as women's duty these
days, and it's so irritating and annoying.
If your aim of
getting married is to have someone take care of you alone, while you sit
there growing tummy and getting fat everyday, while your wife lack and
loose strength daily, then please stay single. Have you noticed that
women die so easily these days, while the men go on and re-marry. It is
not in the place of a woman to baby sit you the man and all you do is
tell her how much you are the head of the home and should be respected.
The truth is that Respect is earned not forced as I have said before.
For everything you want and expect from your wife, you should be the
initiator of it all. If you want your wife to take care of your needs,
do that first, if you want her to respect and reverence you, you have to
HONOR her first and trust me, then and only then are you ready for
marriage and then and only then will you have a beautiful home. Make it
easier for her and she will easily follow. That is exactly how God
wanted it and still wants the home to be. Have an AweZome day, and stay favored always. #PJO#
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