All your need in life can be found in your wife.

Men!!Men!!Men, do you know that to get all what you need and want is all evident in your wife? The wife of your youth. I came across a reading recently and it answered all my questions and survey research about why some men are so blessed and others are not. I know I must have said so before on this group, but I think I need to say it better. Men do you know that you need to HONOR your wives and when I mean HONOR, I mean HONOR.


Now what is HONOR?
The different dictionaries gave a million meanings to it, but I will state the few I can.
1. Honor means high respect, great esteem, Public esteem, etc
2. Honor means the quality of knowing and doing what is morally right
3. Honor means to regard with great respect
4. Honor means to fulfil an obligation or keep an agreement.
5. It also means honesty, fairness or integrity
6. It also means to place value on someone
7. Honor means to SUBMIT
I can go on and on defining the word Honor because the definition is indeed so much. Wow men, how many of you can honor your wives, be realistic with yourselves. First been faithful to your wife is honoring her, not talking down your wife amongst your friends is honoring her, not playing down on her emotions is honoring her. Helping her around the house with chores is honoring her, speaking to your wife with so much respect, not like a maid is honoring her, submitting to her is honoring too. Many men will say this woman has come with this submitting thing again, but thank God I have said it before that submission does not make you a weakly person, it makes you a real man instead. You are showing her how to respect and submit, thereby leading by example.


A lot of you men complain that your wife NAGS, my question to you today is have you checked your actions and activities towards her, to determine the cause of her Nagging, because the truth is that something indeed triggers the NAG in her, she will not just stay and want to run her mouth rough. It's not like am encouraging her to NAG but realistically speaking, there is always a resultant effect to every action, which woman will still NAG after her husband has been so loving, helping and honoring to her?Trust me Men, NONE. Therefore I put it to you today to check your ways as a man, check your speech, mode of conduct, actions etc and see where and how you can indeed make adjustments for the sake of your marriage. Just try it out and watch her follow. Do not mind those friends of yours that say you are less of a man when you do that, because they may even be worse, trying to instill in others what they cannot do.


Like I said before, you need to initiate every good character and attribute you expect to see in your wife and watch how things turn out for the better. The truth most men do not know is that we women are natural followers to beautiful things and that is exactly how God built us. So exhibit and put forth the good and do not just stop there oh, continue doing it, because the minute you stop, she too will stop and you go back to square one. So make it a life style for living daily and you will enjoy your marriage and home and most importantly you as a man will be blessed for honoring your wife. Have a fun-filled Friday my wonderful Pearl Jewels. I love you all, just telling you the home truth to make you happy in marriage, no hate nor judgement.‪#‎PJO‬#