Openess amongst couples

Couples please leave your spouse phone and social media's privacy for them alone, especially women. It is exactly what you are looking for that you are most likely to see, both the real and fake one, truth and lies also. So please no point going through their gadgets. If there was an accident of the phone been with you at the time a strange discussion came in, please act very matured and un concerning about the situation, hand over the phone in peace and do not start assuming anything that is not in the books, as that will break you down and if not careful, the home as well.

I am bringing this up because what facebook, twitter and every form of social media platform is currently doing to homes is terrible. Women I need you to know and note that sometimes, if not most times, ladies tend to take themselves to these husbands and because Men been naturally gullible, they tend to fall easily and because you are not as hot as well, they are most likely to fall. Even if you are hot sef, they will still misbehave. See, there is usually this very WRONG men's proverb of old that it is always good to mix ogbono soup and Egusi soup, if you get me. So wrong a statement and to me it is also very annoying. Some will even tell you how many wives Solomon had and cuncubines, forgetting Abraham and Adam, always taking that which suites them.


Women you know how emotional you can get, especially when you see stuffs like that, so why not avoid the quarrel. It will be wonderful and cool if he can share his privacy with you. Men it is important to note that if you keep your phone from her, then also don't expect to get through her phone either, as that is so not fair and balanced to your wife. Some men will say but I bought it for her, and I reply so what, if you bought it for her nko, are you the first person to buy his wife a phone, so why are you making it a big deal, when it should not be.


I am not trying to encourage secrecy, neither am I trying to say lie. All I am trying to state here is that couples especially women should allow their husband's privacy be except he shares with you, so that they do not see what will cause them a heart break. Another thing is that if the husband sees that you go through his phone and not just seeing but also nagging about it, he will start giving certain codes to things and even become more smarter about his ways, as only God can change him. You can force him to do certain things, but you cannot stop him and his ways. So women be smart, calm, cool and collected. Have the best Friday ever my Pearl Jewels. ‪#‎PJO‬#