Hmmmmm ,.. Men do not just sit around the house doing nothing expecting your wife to do all for you and in return all you will do is beat her up or talk down on her as a payment for all she is doing. That means wickedness is written all over you. I remember having talked about this on the group before, but the rate at which it increases gets me thinking what on earth is really going on with our men, especially our Nigerian men. Why would you want to sit doing nothing and expect your wife to take care of you and your kids and yet you cannot even help around the house, you still want to claim been a man, when in the real sense you are not.
It takes a whole lot to be a man, especially the kind of man you want to be. You can't just go about using the money your wife gives to you to club and chase everything in skirt, what on earth do you mean by that, where is your conscious, and you expect God to sit high up and clap for you that you are doing well and bless you Abi? No way. You need to get your acts right, you need to be a man if you want your kids to look at you differently. You have to be a man, shouldering your responsibilities if you want her to still stay with you.
Women, you can really determine and know a man that is no good, so please to avoid having a divorce, watch out for such gold digging men and avoid them. I am not saying there are no times for struggles, as that is only a phase and after a period of time, it will definitely pass, and he will hurriedly continue from where he stopped. Even while he is in that phase, he will always appreciate your support and make continuous promises on how soon he will leave that situation and even you his wife will obviously see his efforts. Never ever start what you cannot finish at any given point in your marriage too, but helping him out is a necessity that should be properly spelt out, so that it will not be taken for granted. Have a swell weekend my priceless Pearl Jewels. #PJO#
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