Wow
men, we understand that a woman should be submissive, respect you, and
all that stuff. We understand that you are the head of the home and I
believe no woman is fighting that out with you. It is important
therefore to note that respect is earned not forced. You can keep
shouting her down and speaking to her like you are talking to a maid and
expect her to keep been timid because you are the head of the home and
must submit. Hmmmmmm, okay now, let's see how far you can go with that.
If you want your wife to be completely submissive as you would have her be, then simply Love her with all your heart with no chance for another, take care of her as that determines your success, pamper her as that will show off on your kids, respect her, as she also deserves your respect and that is the fastest way to get your respect as well, Cherish her and let her see that her husband can lay his life down for her and trust me, that woman will give you more than you are looking for.
Gone were the days when women or wives will lay down their lives for their husbands when they do not see the need to, whereas it should be the other way round. Men please wake up to your responsibilities and stop frustrating your wives because she makes more money than you. It is not her fault that she makes more, afterall one person have to wake-up, if not starvation will wound her kids and even you, so what are you doing. Instead of encouraging her you are toiling with her emotions. Even if you are not working yet, bless and support your wife the best way you can and watch what God will do and how God will turn your story around, and even she will respect you.
True life story of a Family Friend I know, where the wife was working and earning very well and the husband had nothing doing then. He would assist his wife with chores, kids, even go as low as cook meals for them without complaining, even we felt so embarrassed about it and felt he was over doing it. He would say things like please leave me I know what I am doing and I am not complaining. He is a man worthy of emulation, because been a man is not by mouth. Today if I tell you how God has blessed him, you will be shocked because he is in wealth now, and I mean good money. He never saw it as a competition, rather he saw it as a phase, that will pass, which did in a hurry. Now he over pampers his wife as if he did not assist her before and please note his wife never took him for granted in all this.
What I am trying to say here is that men please, no one is struggling with you, you are the head of the home and every woman by now have gotten the story. All is ask is that you should be more loving and be a man worthy of emulation, like my DADA will say, you are the HOUSEBAND, I will say same to my Pearl Jewels men, that you should be the houseband indeed and dat entails a lot and not by mouth.
As for women please never take your husband who does all this for granted and never in any way break his Ego because he is not making as much as you do, God is watching you and he alone knows what to do to you. So please treat them well and let the blessings flow effectively. Have a wonderful day my Most priced Pearl Jewels. #PJO#
If you want your wife to be completely submissive as you would have her be, then simply Love her with all your heart with no chance for another, take care of her as that determines your success, pamper her as that will show off on your kids, respect her, as she also deserves your respect and that is the fastest way to get your respect as well, Cherish her and let her see that her husband can lay his life down for her and trust me, that woman will give you more than you are looking for.
Gone were the days when women or wives will lay down their lives for their husbands when they do not see the need to, whereas it should be the other way round. Men please wake up to your responsibilities and stop frustrating your wives because she makes more money than you. It is not her fault that she makes more, afterall one person have to wake-up, if not starvation will wound her kids and even you, so what are you doing. Instead of encouraging her you are toiling with her emotions. Even if you are not working yet, bless and support your wife the best way you can and watch what God will do and how God will turn your story around, and even she will respect you.
True life story of a Family Friend I know, where the wife was working and earning very well and the husband had nothing doing then. He would assist his wife with chores, kids, even go as low as cook meals for them without complaining, even we felt so embarrassed about it and felt he was over doing it. He would say things like please leave me I know what I am doing and I am not complaining. He is a man worthy of emulation, because been a man is not by mouth. Today if I tell you how God has blessed him, you will be shocked because he is in wealth now, and I mean good money. He never saw it as a competition, rather he saw it as a phase, that will pass, which did in a hurry. Now he over pampers his wife as if he did not assist her before and please note his wife never took him for granted in all this.
What I am trying to say here is that men please, no one is struggling with you, you are the head of the home and every woman by now have gotten the story. All is ask is that you should be more loving and be a man worthy of emulation, like my DADA will say, you are the HOUSEBAND, I will say same to my Pearl Jewels men, that you should be the houseband indeed and dat entails a lot and not by mouth.
As for women please never take your husband who does all this for granted and never in any way break his Ego because he is not making as much as you do, God is watching you and he alone knows what to do to you. So please treat them well and let the blessings flow effectively. Have a wonderful day my Most priced Pearl Jewels. #PJO#
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