Saturday, 31 October 2015

Intimacy

Good morning My pear Jewels, today I will try and be addressing "intimacy" as one of the ingredients for a God ordained marriage. I try giving an English meaning and definition to most of these ingredients so that explanations can be easier, if not you can go on and on over a particular tip and it might just be difficult to be gotten.

Therefore what is INTIMACY/ What does it mean to be INTIMATE?
Intimacy is about been emotionally close to your SPOUSE, about been able to let your guard down and let him or her know how you really feel. It is also about being able to accept and share in your partner's feelings, about being there when he or she wants to let their defences down.

Now to me intimacy is deeper than sex, it takes a lot of emotions, attention, self denial, etc. Intimacy is a process not a thing that takes place overtime to move your marriage forward. Intimacy is a conscious effort put into action by both partners that helps solidify your marriages and make you both "Inseparable". Intimacy makes couples know what their spouse is thinking at every point in time and where they are at any given time. Intimacy makes a couple not easily vulnerable to some given temptation though with commitment too.

Intimacy closes any gap in your marriages, chase any obstacle together, etc. I can go on and on about intimacy maybe because I love it and understand it, I don't know, but to crown it all, intimacy makes couples have a connected spirit that even when they just had a hot argument or fight, intimacy draws them back together faster like a MAGNET, not love per say, because you have shared a lot together in words, feelings and action, that you cannot just separate how much more Divorce.

Intimacy is the "Magnetic force" in a marriage to cut all the long story short. You may be having butterfly in your stomach (Love/infatuation) for each other, but trust me if you don't share together (Intimacy), one day all the butterflies will be passed out with your stool and you will know it was all a Face. Can u be in Love and not be INTIMATE? YES is the answer I gave a couple recently that asked the question with proofs to back up.

Therefore get intimate with each other because with strong intimacy, there will be effective COMMUNICATION, which will be discussed tomorrow and Policing your spouse will not be necessary. Have a Beautiful week my Pearl Jewels. ‪#‎PJO‬#

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