Hope

How much hope have you given your home, how hopeful are you about your spouse, how hopeful are you on the marriage. Some of you just think that when you get married, everything should just be running on rails for you. Who told you that is how it is, or that is what usually happens. You do not even push hard to saving your marriage, some people say that they have tried all they know to do to save the situation, but you see, I thank God it is all you tried, not all that there is to be done.

If you search even more, you will find out that there are worse cases than yours, yet they are pushing very hard and making it work. Yes I agree that your marriage should be enjoyed not endured. To enjoy your marriage, you need to make some sacrifices and do some work too, but No, you just want to sit down and let it fall on you, that is not so, neither is it okay. You also forget to know that it was you that choose the path for yourself without consulting anyone, not even God, and now you just expect everything to be just fine. My darling, that does not work out like that. With the kind of decision you took, you really have to be extra patient in that marriage.


Oh dear, if you are not patient enough for the successful running of your home, then grow it. I mean grow your patience level to a 100%, if you want to succeed in your home, because trust me Darling, if it is small, you are bound to NAG, because you will see everything wrong and annoying to you, seems it is not going your way or as planned. Thereby building and growing an evil seed in your heart that will definitely lure you to Divorce.


My Darling Pearl Jewels, do you know that Divorce is not planned, it just happens and this can be due to lack of patience, hope etc in your home, allowing wrong seeds to germinate in your heart which will eventually cause a crack in the marriage and once water keeps going into the crack (More developed issues), then it will give way completely. This is exactly what happens in most homes of Divorce. So please my Darling and Sweet Pearl Jewels, avoid this gradual cracks in your homes. Do not break the edge, and do not ever forget to pray effectively as that is a sure way to fix every crack Permanently, together with all I advice on. Have a wonderful and Peaceful Friday. ‪#‎PJO‬#