Saturday, 31 October 2015

Compromise

Today's ingredient is COMPROMISE which according to Cambridge Dictionary is an agreement in which the people involved reduced to their demands or change their opinion in order to agree. This to me is very clear and explicit enough. Therefore as couples, I would say that you should learn to agree on each others principles/laws sometimes, learning to give way for your spouse's opinion too.

What I have noticed is that one person is right or even the both of your opinions are right, but the truth is that only One can prevail. So why fight over issues every time just because you want it your way. My husband makes a statement that "Okay no dey tear cloth", but in this case, it's not to say okay alone and still do your own, rather let it be in books that his/her opinion flopped 1st, then you can move forward without having to point fingers, because the truth is that seems you both agree one a thing, it's more more likely going to materialize than one person always doing a thing or having their way.

Another word for "Compromise" to me is "Agreement", and agreement is very powerful and strong that it destroys that it destroys obstacles. Therefore My sweet awesome Pearl Jewels, you must not have it your way every time, if you listen to yourselves well, you will find out you both are saying the same thing, heading to the same place, but only trying to follow different directions and that is not possible, because you are both in the same car/boat. Why not therefore decide together to follow the same direction and move forward even faster because disagreement causes quick disintegration as one person will want to come down and walk, slowing down the one in the car, because he/she will definitely have to wait for you,or come back to pick you, thereby causing a slow paced movement.
Therefore couples please learn to agree on a particular thing together and fast, so that your marriage can move smoothly and also not allowing disagreement to scatter your homes. Have a splendid weekend my Pearl Jewels.‪#‎PJO‬#

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