Men it's high time you stopped playing God to your wife, because the truth is that you are not her God only her husband. That she is helpless today does not mean she cannot decide to misbehave like you if she wants to. She is trying all what she can just to please you her husband and all you do is play down on her emotions. Some men present themselves un-talkable if there is anything like that to, their wives that her fear, anger, choices, needs etc cannot be adequately communicated to their husband's all because the men see themselves as mini-gods.
Some men do not give their wives the permission to speak as anything she says is meaningless to him, because he knows it all. Then for God's sake the question I ask is why then did you marry her? Is it for show and tell like they do in my kids school or for daily sight seeing? Or what.
My Pearl Jewels,
imagine a woman being a statute in her own home, always been afraid to speak because anything she says will likely be used against her in the court of his Judgement. Frankly I pity the woman, because there is really nothing much to say to her, especially when she is the type that believes so much in the institution of marriage. Prayer is her sure key, because she really cannot communicate adequately to her husband as anything she says and does is wrongly perceived that she cannot do or say anything without been emotionally hit with ill-mannered words to her face. That is why ladies I always advice that you observe certain features before marriage, never ever be covered by pretence alone towards you.
Men I beg you, if you are in this category, please stop it and how you can know is by watching and studying your wife closely, because the truth is that if you ask her, she is never going to tell you, because of your reaction, mostly if it's been consistent. So I will say you should take your time out and watch her during conversations, be attentive for her contributions especially that which concerns the household. Except if she is naturally stubborn and does not give a damn about your reaction. But if you have a peaceful wife, then she is most likely not going to contribute because her contribution has been useless all along. If she says things like YES and OKAY then just know you are part of the many men that do not have a wife, but a sex toy and living mate.
I also pray and wish that your pride will allow you do that, especially if you have a good wife, because truth be told, men know a good woman and this is just one side I painted. Like I have said before, there should be a reality check done regularly amongst couples, that way you always know what and where a fall is occurring and quickly fix it. Have a Glorious Tuesday my Pearl Jewels. Until on Friday again, remain Celebrated. #PJO#
imagine a woman being a statute in her own home, always been afraid to speak because anything she says will likely be used against her in the court of his Judgement. Frankly I pity the woman, because there is really nothing much to say to her, especially when she is the type that believes so much in the institution of marriage. Prayer is her sure key, because she really cannot communicate adequately to her husband as anything she says and does is wrongly perceived that she cannot do or say anything without been emotionally hit with ill-mannered words to her face. That is why ladies I always advice that you observe certain features before marriage, never ever be covered by pretence alone towards you.
Men I beg you, if you are in this category, please stop it and how you can know is by watching and studying your wife closely, because the truth is that if you ask her, she is never going to tell you, because of your reaction, mostly if it's been consistent. So I will say you should take your time out and watch her during conversations, be attentive for her contributions especially that which concerns the household. Except if she is naturally stubborn and does not give a damn about your reaction. But if you have a peaceful wife, then she is most likely not going to contribute because her contribution has been useless all along. If she says things like YES and OKAY then just know you are part of the many men that do not have a wife, but a sex toy and living mate.
I also pray and wish that your pride will allow you do that, especially if you have a good wife, because truth be told, men know a good woman and this is just one side I painted. Like I have said before, there should be a reality check done regularly amongst couples, that way you always know what and where a fall is occurring and quickly fix it. Have a Glorious Tuesday my Pearl Jewels. Until on Friday again, remain Celebrated. #PJO#
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