Happiness, your personal role in Marriage and Relationship.

In Life my Pearl Jewels, it is important to note that you are responsible for your happiness in essence you are the one to make yourself happy and not any man or woman. Most times I noticed that some ladies date a guy with all their strength and brain, that even when the guy is mistreating them, they still stay put in the relationship claiming they love the guy. For Christ sake what will happen to them when they get married to that same guy?


The most annoying part is that they say things like I love him so much, that I cannot do without him, but few years after or months after, they all of a sudden cannot take it anymore. Yet it is the same man you cannot live without. Please how can you justify both statements? Where is the professed Love with no end gone to all of a sudden.

My darling, please stop deceiving yourself that you love a guy who constantly beats you and plays down on your emotions and make you feel low of yourself. A guy who always puts you to the ground indirectly, both in words and action is not ready and worthy to walk you down that aisle, so please stop deceiving yourself. It cannot work, so you better leave that relationship now and do not think of saying he would change because he would only get worse once you get married to him trust me.


I am not trying to scare you and all that, I only want the best for you and want you to live a happy ever after life, thereby avoiding Divorce in your history. If the right decisions are made before marriage, I would have therefore achieved my aim and assignment. Always remember the Popular saying that a broken engagement or relationship is better than a broken marriage. Have an increased week ever my most esteemed Pearl Jewels. ‪#‎PJO‬#